Lord Krishna told Dharmaja, 

      Though Duryodhana and Dhusshaasana were born in notable royal family, they discarded the human qualities due to jealousy and hatred and brought ruin to the family and the clan. Krishna added that jealousy is a dangerous canker that eats at the root of the tree of life, while hatred is pest that attacks the trunk of the tree. Thus, the tree of life is completely destroyed by both these pests. The Kauravas were victims of these two pests and sought their own ruin.
 

        One may raise the question as to how to get over these dangerous pests of jealousy and hatred. This is possible when you make all the sense organs function in unison.

     If senses do not follow thoughts, life will become miserable. When there is forbearance, all organs co-ordinate harmoniously and work in unison

Sathya Sai Speaks Vol XXVII page 3 and 4 

                                                                       THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

You should keep your attention on God, not letting a drop of your desire slip away from the lamp of God - revealing wisdom; and yet devote part of your attention to thoroughly performing the God - given duties of maintaining yourself  and others given into your charge.

                   If karmas were performed with desires, the vedas promise, they will give us the greater joys of the world of the manes or the dead, and when karmas are performed along with upasana (worship) Godly joys of the heaven.

            Carve out a new canal in your mind with repeated good thought waves. Repeat yourself ," I love all" I am very tolerent." Go on repeating the self-suggestive thoughts, " I am Kind, I will never get angry. ,I am tolerent etc., and in a short time you will observe that you have no anger at all in your mental makeup.

                 Live in constant remembrance of the Lord. Fight down wrong negative values in your psychological make-up. Lead a pure life of positivity. Serve all. Love all. Be kind. Be pure. Be patient. Be tolerent . Be sincere. Bathe your life in unrestricted limitless love. Surrender unto Him and thus eliminate all selfishness, Rise to your own Divine Nature. Serve, love, purify, meditate and realise the Godly Nature through constant Narayana  Smarana.